Understanding the situation
Just so in your head you can create firm boundaries and feel for the understanding of the situation that will happen.
If you are not sure what kind of behavior is not normal and what is it emotional blackmail, ask around your friends, what do you think, or go consult a specialist.
When you have clearly set boundaries, hardly anyone convince you that cause guilt in you, even if you have not done so, and you also difficult to deter because he had previously can clearly say no.
Handling or accommodating?
No one has a patent on that absolutely knew what was right. There is no absolute truth.
How many people, so many opinions “If someone can not evaluate or imposes his version of the situation as the only possible, are on the alert
Feedback and evaluation has exactly the same value as the opinion of another person, “says psychologist Melina Novak ova and adds:
“Believe in yourself and stand up for yourself, the other person can not achieve happiness and satisfaction on the basis that you are behaving as he wants. ”
This is not meant to his closest you have come to meet. But it should stem from your own decisions, not the fact that you feel fear or guilt, and so I do what is waiting for you.
Talk about your feelings
Emotional blackmail is so often behave differently because they “can not”. They can not control their fears and unconscious needs, from which springs manipulation.